Anxiety can feel overwhelming and take away the peace of your mind and body. Combining practical techniques with prayer can bring calm in the middle of the storm, though it is not always enough: at the end I tell you when it is wise to seek professional help. Anxiety is not a sign of little faith.
Mindful breathing and prayer
Sit with your back comfortable and breathe in slowly through your nose, letting the air out slowly through your mouth. As you breathe, repeat a short prayer: “God, grant me your peace” or “Lord, fill me with your calm.” With each exhale, let go of tension. If deep breathing makes you dizzy or more nervous, go back to breathing normally: there is no need to force it.
Meditating on the Word of God can also help: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6-7, NIV). Read the passage slowly and let the words keep you company.
A prayer of surrender and trust
In moments of anxiety, you can place your worries in God’s hands with simple words, for example: “Lord, I place my worries and anxieties in your hands. I trust that you care for me. Help me find peace in your presence.”
- Remember that God cares for you: “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you” (1 Peter 5:7, NIV)
- Seek refuge in him: “My salvation and my honor depend on God; he is my mighty rock, my refuge. Trust in him at all times, you people; pour out your hearts to him, for God is our refuge” (Psalm 62:7-8, NIV)
- Remember his company in the dark moments: “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me” (Psalm 23:4, NIV)
- Close by giving thanks and asking for his peace.
One caution: prayer should give you rest, not become one more source of pressure. If you feel you have to repeat a prayer an exact number of times, or start over until it comes out “right” to ease your fear, and you cannot stop, talk with a professional about it.
Guided visualization
Close your eyes if you feel comfortable (if not, rest your gaze softly on one spot) and picture a peaceful place: a garden, a calm stream. Imagine that God is with you there. As you take in that place, repeat a short phrase that gives you calm. If the image brings back unpleasant memories, stop the exercise and look around you.
Physical exercise and gratitude
Moving regularly helps release tension. You can combine it with gratitude: a walk outdoors thanking God for what you see, or some gentle exercises while you meditate on his goodness.
When anxiety needs more than techniques
Anxiety disorders go beyond occasional worry or fear: the anxiety does not go away, it shows up in many situations and it can get worse over time. Seek professional help if it interferes with your work, your sleep or your relationships, if you have panic attacks, if you avoid more and more places or situations, or if you feel hopeless. It is also wise to have your doctor rule out physical causes. Effective treatments exist, and asking for help does not contradict your faith.
Which of these practices would you like to try today, and who could you tell how it goes?
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This article is for education only. It does not offer diagnosis or personal advice, does not replace evaluation or treatment by a health professional, and reading it or writing to us through this site does not create a therapeutic or pastoral counseling relationship. This site is not an emergency service and is not monitored continuously: do not send health information through comments or public forms. The author is a licensed psychotherapist and pastor, and is part of ZODU.
Sources
- National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), Anxiety Disorders: https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/anxiety-disorders
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