4 negative styles of communication in marriage

Lack of communication in marriage: “You never pay attention. You always do what you want. You do not respect the budget we have agreed upon. I do not understand why you bought that TV for the room. We do not need it, that expense is not in the budget. You are useless. You are a …

There is no intimacy without vulnerability

Let’s continue with the previous post. Intimacy is the basis for us to know God and our neighbor, which also includes our spouse. But it is difficult to put into practice if we have not learned to have intimacy in our families. Sadly, history tells us that Adam and Eve disobeyed and sinned by breaking …

What you need to know about intimacy

Today, intimacy is not fully understood. There are misconceptions about intimacy, and that is why I want to write about this topic. For example, many say that: 1) Intimacy is sexual participation with another person. 2) Intimacy is always expressed physically. 3) Marriage will naturally produce intimacy. 4) Intimacy can only be found in relationships …

Helping your spouse overcome depression

Continuing from our last post, there are several ways you can help your spouse overcome depression. Or at least be the support your spouse needs to seek professional help. Fortunately, depression is a treatable illness. While many people live with depression, they find support to go on living life. Sometimes through therapy alone, or with …

How to face depression in the marriage

We all know what depression is and how it affects the life of the person who is experiencing it. Let’s see now, how to face depression in the marriage. We also know that it affects family members who have close contact with that person. Clinical or Major Depression is a more serious issue. It is …

How to strengthen your marriage

We have been comparing the structure of a house to the structure of marriage. How to strengthen your marriage? We talked about the importance of having a strong and deep foundation. Thus, we also emphasized the importance of having strong walls that do not succumb to the changes of life. These walls are reinforced by …

Foundations of a healthy marriage

Do you know how a house is structured? Do you know the process for building a house? A house is made of several parts, each is important and has a specific role. Did you know that a marriage is built the same way as a house? Let’s see how to build a healthy marriage. Foundations …

How To Heal Attachment Injuries In Marital Relationships

[vc_row][vc_column width=”1/3″][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/3″][vc_single_image image=”2119″ img_size=”600×315″][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/3″][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_empty_space height=”25px”][ultimate_heading main_heading=”How To Heal Attachment Injuries In Marital Relationships.”][/ultimate_heading][vc_empty_space height=”25px”][vc_column_text] I remember, a while back, when my wife came home from work feeling very depressed, overwhelmed, and emotionally drained. She had some attachment injuries. She came to me looking for understanding and validation in the safety of my arms. …

Is the sexual act something innate or something we learn?

Talking about sexual acts in some religious circles is a controversial topic and makes many people uncomfortable. It is not difficult to understand why if we consider that sex is a gift from God. Someone said that when Adam and Eve got married, the gift God gave the newlyweds was sex. The Bible presents sex …

How to deal with the insecurity in love

When we talk about the basis on which our affections work, we can easily think that the experiences that a person has lived can determine the lens through which he/she perceives life and the interpersonal relationships that he/she has built. But how important are the early experiences we live in our childhood? Can they affect …